Forgotten In The Battle

Roxanna Johnson’s story showed me that my feelings about being married to a sex addict were not only valid, but normal and that betrayal trauma is real. Society needs to support the families affected by addiction as much as they support the addict. If spouses and families don’t receive help to heal from the trauma of addiction, it will have a lasting impact on their lives. Reading Johnson’s book helped to heal me in a profound way.

Roxanna Johnson beautifully weaves her own exploration of the emotional and psychological aftermath
of betrayal with a practical guide to navigating the tumultuous journey of healing. She opens herself up in
a way that feels deeply personal, raw, and accessible.
Johnson’s ability to blend personal narrative with actionable guidance sets this book apart . It’s not just a
story or a set of observations. Johnson walks beside you on your own journey, offering support, insight,
and space to explore your feelings without judgment. I especially appreciated how she acknowledges that
recovery from betrayal is not linear or brief, and that it’s okay to take things one step at a time.
It’s clear that Johnson wants to help others reconnect with their own sense of self-worth and resilience.

After betrayal, it’s easy to lose sight of who we are or to feel broken. She consistently emphasizes self-
compassion, setting boundaries, and finding ways to rebuild trust; both with others and with yourself. It’s

clear that Johnson understands the complexity of betrayal trauma and doesn’t offer simplistic solutions.
Instead, she shares nuanced, thoughtful insights that encourage deep introspection and self-awareness.

The Forgotten Side of Sexual Addiction: A Spouse’s Journey is a raw, compassionate,
and incredibly insightful exploration of the effects of addiction on a loved one. In this
powerful book, Roxanna Johnson takes readers on a deeply personal journey, sharing
her own stories of pain, anger, and eventual healing after a lifetime of living with loved
ones who struggle with addiction. Her writing is unflinchingly honest, yet respectful,
offering both a testament to her strength and a lifeline to others who may be walking a
similar path. Through her narrative, Johnson doesn’t just recount her experiences; she
offers a roadmap of principles and suggestions for anyone struggling with the aftermath
of sexual addiction and betrayal. What stands out most is her refusal to sugarcoat the
journey—recovery, she makes clear, is not linear, but rather jagged and imperfect. This
book is not about finding quick fixes but about embracing the messiness of healing
while reclaiming one’s sense of self. The Forgotten Side of Sexual Addiction: A
Spouse’s Journey is a source of empowerment for anyone grappling with the
devastation of betrayal.

This book is a healing tool for those broken hearts who have experienced sexual addiction in their marriage. It shines a light on the debilitating burdens and shame thrust on the spouse. Johnson did an outstanding job of putting words to the life shattering experience of this and other addictions. She brings deep healing and hope for a future of forgiveness and progress. This book is a must read for anyone who loves, lives with, or even knows someone with the disease of addiction in their lives. It is a very helpful resource for identifying addiction behaviors, codependent reactions, and corresponding solutions. I highly recommend this book.

This book is absolutely phenomenal! It’s packed with insight and wisdom that feels both practical and profound. The principles it teaches are game-changers for navigating difficult relationships in healthier, more thoughtful ways. I found myself nodding along and feeling like I finally had language for things I’ve experienced but couldn’t quite put into words.

What I love most is how universally applicable it is—anyone, no matter their stage of life or situation, could benefit from what’s taught here. It’s not just theory, but real tools that make a difference in everyday interactions.

I can’t recommend this book enough! If you want to strengthen your relationships, set healthier boundaries, or simply understand people (and yourself) better, this is a must-read.